What to Expect
Come join us! If you’d like, reach out to us ahead of time to ask questions and introduce yourself. We look forward to meeting you soon!
What should I wear?
Because traditional Orthodox worship involves the body and well as the soul, we tend to shy away from restrictive and formal styles of clothing – after all, how can you make a deep bow from the waist if your tie is choking you as you do so? But still, attire should be modest and show a sense of respect for the house of God. Some will be a bit more dressed up; but most dress along the lines of business casual. Many of our ladies choose to wear head-coverings, as is traditional, but many do not; so a visiting lady who is not used to such should not feel at all self-conscious without one.
Is there childcare?
Our community is truly blessed with so many children! In Orthodox services, children worship alongside their parents as integral members of the Body of Christ. The sound of children in the services is taken to be a beautiful sign of life. Toddlers and preschoolers may find it helpful to have a board book in hand to help maintain calm. Sometimes parents take restless children briefly into the narthex (lobby) or downstairs to the library, where there’s a nursery and audio of the service. However, our many children and much "holy noise" is preferred to the contrary!
May I receive Holy Communion?
In the Orthodox Church we practice what is often called “closed” communion, so only those who have been formally received into the Orthodox Church may partake. If you are not already Orthodox, please view this as an invitation to give serious consideration to Orthodox Christianity, soon joining us in our commitment to all of the ancient Church’s dogma, practice, and discipline, which we believe to be life-giving. For a brief video discussion of the subject, click here.
Which service would be best for my first?
Many find Great Vespers to be a good introduction to the style and feel of Orthodox worship, others like to jump right in to the Divine Liturgy. Either is just fine. More importantly, when you come, don’t worry about “getting” it all at once. If you would like to follow along in a service book, do so, but mostly just let the flow of the prayer, hymns, and ritual wash over you. A wise woman often tells visitors: “Come at least three time, preferably three weeks in a row, then you will begin to know.”
What language do you use?
English primarily, but salted occasionally with a little Greek, Arabic, etc.
I'm shy, can I just come and pray quietly?
Yes, please do. But our parishioners do tend to be a friendly bunch, so please be patient with us in our enthusiasm!
Anything else?
You may find it helpful to read the article “Twelve Things I Wish I’d Known” shortly before your first visit. When you are ready to explore further, you might enjoy the series of videos on our Intro Videos page. Still, you don’t have to study up first; just “come and see,” sometimes letting the flow of the prayers, hymns, and ritual wash over you is the best approach.